Saturday, December 10, 2005

Boyfriend and Porn

Question: I'm from Asia and I have read ikdg.I think it's an amzing book and it puts everything into perspective. But I can't seem to get a hold of your other books.

On a sad note,I found out that my boyfriend is addicted to hard core porn. I asked God to change him. I've talked to him and lent him your book but he says you are impossible. Should I stay on and continue praying for him or should I cut all ties?—D.

Josh Answers:
I'm so glad you enjoyed ikdg. Please email your address to my assistant Katherine. Her address is under the contact link of my homepage. We'll mail you my other books.

I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend. Lust can be so controlling and so destructive. It's something that we all battle with in different ways. If your boyfriend is seeking to grow in holiness, turn away from this sin and seek the help of other Christians, I'm certain God will help him. But if he doesn't demonstrate a real desire to change I don't think this is the kind of man you want to be with. I would encourage you to get out of the relationship. But please don't stop praying for him. I hope that my book Sex is Not the Problem (Lust is) will encourage you and help you see the issues involved more clearly. And possibly your boyfriend will be open to reading it, too.

God bless you!

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